Summer Hair & Fragrance Diaries: My Journey to Confidence & Comfort
Hello, my lovely thoughtful group!
Welcome to The AnnaQuari – where we learn, glow, and transform together. We talked about serene mornings, skincare during all seasons, fashion, health, and how our mind can actually affect our emotions in my previous blog posts. Today, I want to share with you a very personal experience of my daily struggle and transformation – my hair care routine and how fragrances influence my emotions during summer.
Let's get real. Who hasn't ever been conflicted about their hair? Dryness, frizz, dandruff, split ends, greasy roots – it's like a never-ending list! And don't even start me on the smell issues. One bad odor can ruin your entire day.
My Hair Care Journey: From Experimentation to Simplicity I was accustomed to testing shampoos when I was a kid. Lifebuoy, Sunsilk, Palmolive – call them. The glossy TV advertisements made me think I would have Rapunzel hair if I just used whatever the actress used. But real life? Not so much fairy tale.
Finally, I discovered Dove shampoo and conditioner. And behold, for the first time, something actually worked for me:
- Less hair loss
- Fewer dandruffs
- Almost frizz-free hair
- Soft texture
Now I've made it my constant companion.
But my experience did prove one thing: our minds and emotions determine how products impact us. If you have negative feelings about self-care, then nothing works. But when you're relaxed and centered, your body responds positively. It's not the product—it's how you care for yourself.
Different Types of Hair & Their Care
Here, we will look at the five main hair types and discuss the best ways to handle them.
1. Dry Hair
Signs:
- Rough texture
- Dullness
- Breakage
- Frizz
Best Oils:
- Coconut Oil: Supports and penetrates the skin efficiently
- Argan Oil: Smooths your hair and adds shine.
- Olive Oil: Helps moisturize the hair and repairs damage.
Hair Masks:
- Banana + Honey
- Avocado combined with Coconut Oil
- Yogurt mixed with Olive Oil
Best Shampoo:
- Dove Intense Repair
- Khadi Natural Herbal Shampoo
Do not use: Shampoos with sulfates, too hot water, shampoo your hair every day.
2. Oily Hair
Signs:
- A greasy scalp can occur within 1 or 2 days.
- Flat and limp pieces of hair
- Dandruff
The causes include active sebaceous glands and changes in hormones.
Oil Tips:
Try to steer clear of heavy oils. Remove tea tree or jojoba oil from your hair after one week of application.
The Best Hair Masks:
- Clay + Aloe Vera (helps absorb excess oil)
- Combine Multani Mitti with rose water.
Shampoos:
- Himalaya Anti-Dandruff
- Tea Tree Shampoo by Mamaearth
You should wash your hair no more than 2 to 3 times a week. Clarifying shampoo should be used at least once every four weeks.
3. Combination Hair
Signs:
- There is oil at the roots and dryness at the tips.
- Frizzy and flat hair
Solution: Shampoo only your scalp and apply an oil serum to your ends.
Best Oils:
- Apply grapeseed oil to your ends.
- Jojoba Oil can be used on the scalp.
Masks: Apply aloe vera + honey to ends only.
Best Shampoo:
- WOW Apple Cider Vinegar
- The Biotique Green Apple Shampoo
4. Sensitive/Scalp-Irritated Hair
Signs:
- A scalp that feels itchy, flakes or swells
- Falling hair is caused by reactions.
Tip: Stick to organic, fragrance-free product
Oils:
- Calendula Oil
- Chamomile Oil
Hair Masks:
- Try Aloe Vera and Cucumber Juice.
- Yogurt combined with honey
Shampoo:
- Sebamed products for anti-hair loss
- Cetaphil makes a gentle shampoo and it does work well.
5. Normal Hair
Lucky You! Nevertheless, don’t overdo it.
Oils: Apply light coconut oil once a week on your skin
As a treatment, use Aloe + Yogurt once a week.
Shampoo: Choose a brand that is mild and doesn’t have sulfates.
How Much Oil Should You Use on Your Hair?
For dry hair: Apply oil and let it sit in your hair overnight or for 6–8 hours
If you have an oily scalp, let your hair soak in the mixture for 1 to 2 hours, then wash it well.
You should leave your shoes on for 2 to 4 hours.
You do not need to oil your skin on a daily basis. Performing exercises twice weekly is perfect.
Is using a Hair Mask Really Beneficial?
Absolutely. Masks help to deeply moisturize, strengthen and repair your skin. However, use these words only when they fit the situation. Try to get together once each week. Brushing your teeth too much may lead to accumulation or cracked enamel.
Pros:
- Moisturizes scalp
- Repairs can help with split ends.
- Helps to make the hair thicker and shinier.
Cons:
- Weighs down hair that is very greasy.
- It may cause irritation to the scalp if it contains lots of scents or parabens.
5 Wonderful and Soft Perfumes You’ll Love
Each person’s sense of smell is unique. As I mentioned before, strong perfumes give me headaches and really make me feel awful. My favorite perfumes are those that are gentle, soothing and refreshing.
Here are my absolute favorites:
1. Chance Eau Tendre by Chanel
- The fragrance is light and contains notes of grapefruit and jasmine.
- Why It’s Good: This fragrance is soft and delicate, while also feeling rich and refreshing.
- Good For: Regular use, those sensitive to smells
Link given below:
https://www.chanel.com/us/fragrance/p/116520/chance-eau-tendre-eau-de-toilette-spray/
2. The Peony & Blush Suede fragrance by Jo Malone
- The fragrance is made up of peony, red apple and suede.
- The Benefits: Stylish, smooth and doesn’t overwhelm your taste buds
- This is great for activities during spring and summer.
Link given below:
3. The Cloud by Ariana Grande
- The perfume in the candle is made from lavender, coconut, praline and vanilla.
- Why It’s Great: This drink tastes sweet, dreamy and very comforting.
- Teens and anyone who loves gentle fragrances will enjoy this line.
Link given below:
https://www.ulta.com/p/cloud-eau-de-parfum-pimprod2007352
4. The Body Shop White Musk
- Scent: Musk, lily and soft rose
- The reason it’s good: It’s light, has a classic feel and is ethereal.
- Good for: Casual and work outfits
Link given below:
https://www.thebodyshop.com/en-us/fragrance/eau-de-toilette/white-musk-eau-de-toilette/p/p000078
5. Kayali Vanilla 28
- The smell is deep vanilla, sweetened with brown sugar and tonka bean.
- What Makes It Good: A soft fragrance that lasts without leaving a strong scent
- Best For: Date nights and cozy vibes
https://www.sephora.com/product/kayali-vanilla-28-P448123
The Impact of Fragrance on Our Mental State
Applying your favorite perfume or cologne can cheer you up and make you feel self-assured. It’s not important to please others – it’s all about your own happiness.
- A gentle fragrance helps you relax.
- You walk with more confidence.
- You are more likely to smile.
- You decide the kind of person you are.
Bonus Tip from My Journey to Confidence
Here’s the truth: Confidence is not about being the loudest in the room or turning heads everywhere you go. It’s about being okay with who you are.
I was always someone who needed time to adjust in a new environment. I worried about what others thought of me. And that made me anxious and self-critical.
But over time, I learned a beautiful truth:
“No one is perfect. But we can all work on becoming our best version.”
So today, I invite you:
Stop thinking what others think. Start thinking what you want to feel.
Whether it's your hairstyle, your skincare, your outfit, or your fragrance – own it!
Hair and a personal scent are important, respected and life-changing. You should treat yourself with respect and care. Select the option that appeals to you. Try new things without worrying about the outcome. And think that taking care of yourself is a form of self-love.
I look forward to seeing you again soon.
Always be friendly, shine and remain yourself.
With love,
AnnaQuari
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